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Giving Thanks

Posted by: Eva on: November 27, 2008

You know, there are many reasons why I shouldn’t like Thanksgiving. Even before I became a vegetarian, I never liked turkey. Or stuffing. Or the way that, after the meal, the men always end up in the living room watching football while the women are in the kitchen cleaning up. Or being stuck at the ‘little kids’ table when I was already at the dignified age of nine. At that same age, I was also known to loudly discuss the irony of a holiday thanking the Native Americans for saving European settlers who promptly turned around and stole their land and lives, much to my mother’s embarassment.

But in defiance of all that, I still love Thanksgiving. Because it’s really about celebrating closeness. It’s a holiday when we invite relative strangers to come have dinner, just because the thought of someone alone on Thanksgiving is unacceptable. It’s a holiday when we at least call our friends and family, to catch up on what’s going on, and when, if we’re lucky, we trek across the country to see them face-to-face.

And even more than that, it’s a holiday that makes us stop and think about what we have to be grateful for in our lives. I’ve been doing that quite a bit lately; during October, I experienced depression for the first time in my life. I’m not really sure what brought it on or what made it leave, but it left me with profound respect for anyone struggling with a mental illness on a regular basis. It also made me see my life differently, and I’ve become profoundly appreciative of all the big and small blessings that surround me. What’s more, I’ve begun voicing that appreciation.

So, I’d like to take a moment to thank all of the people who make up this book blogging community. I think it reflects the best characteristics of humanity: curiousity, friendliness, warmth, humour. We welcome new members with open arms, we support each other through the rough times and congratulate each other during the good, all while feeding our love for books and reading. That’s damn impressive.

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

20 Responses to "Giving Thanks"

What a terrific post! I agree – the bloggers I have met over the last two years are some of the best people in the world…and I am very thankful to be part of this community. Have a GREAT Thanksgiving, Eva!

I’m still sitting at the kid’s table, even at the dignified age of 28. :) Beautifully written post. Happy Thanksgiving!

We’re thankful for you, too, Eva! Have a great Thanksgiving!

Lezlie

What a fantastic post, and I couldn’t agree more. I am thankful for so many things, and one of them is DEFINITELY the book blogging community and all of my “friends” in it. Thanks Eva. :)

Thankful for you and your blog in this world, Eva! It’s been so nice to come across another chronic illness sufferer who’s prepared to talk about it and to talk about other things too. I am so sorry to hear October was tough, but I know exactly where you’re coming from and what it feels like. And I think we both know that there’s a lot to be learned from the difficult times. Have a very, very happy and peaceful Thanksgiving!

Wonderful post, Eva! It’s good to have you back. Happy Thanksgiving!

Happy Thanksgiving!

The kid table in my family was always the place to be. Sometimes you’d even see grown-ups trying to sneak a seat there.

…but I totally agree with you about the girls having to clean up. grrr

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving! :)

Beautiful post, Eva. I’m also very thankful for this community. I’m sorry to hear you had a hard time in October, but I’m glad you’re feeling better now. Depression is a mysterious thing, isn’t it? It can be so baffling to see it come and go for no apparent reason. I hope you have a wonderful thanksgiving *hug*

Fantastic post, Eva! I’m so thankful for you and all the other bloggers in my life. It’s like a very richly diverse and interesting family. :)

I am also very glad to have found the book blogging community. It’s wonderful. Happy Thanksgiving!

Happy Thanksgiving Eva!

Everything you said, Eva! I think you just described my take on Thanksgiving as well, even if I did celebrate it a month ago. ;)
I’m glad you’re feeling better, and Happy Thanksgiving to you.

this is a very nice post. I don’t celebrate Thanksgiving, but I think you can express you gratitue anytime, anyday. I just discovered the book blogging community a few months back and I think it’s THE best…

Wonderful post Eva! Hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving.

Hey, my husband isn’t into sports and did ALL the dishes last night. I’m one lucky gal!

Happy late thanksgiving to you, Eva. And I know all about the mysterious comings and goings of depression, it sadly runs in our family. As much as I hate it, I’ve learned that it means something important that I have to process. Here’s a hug, and welcome back, dear blogging friend.

Wendy, thanks!

Jessi, now I think I’d prefer the kids’ table too. ;)

Lezlie, thanks!

Heather, thanks!

Litlove, oh-thank you. I feel the same way about you! :)

Softdrink, thanks!

Alyce, thanks!

Em, that’s so funny!

Nymeth, it is definitely mysterious. I’m just hoping it never, ever comes back!

Andi, that’s such a good way of putting it!

Bluestocking, thanks!

Jeane, thanks!

Stefanie, thanks!

Melanie, oh you crazy Canadians, with Thanksgiving in October…j/k ;)

Violet, I agree-gratitude is such an important thing.

Stephanie, you’re definitely lucky! :D

Susan, I agree; I definitely needed to process some big things, and I think that avoiding that is what lead to the shut down. Thanks for such a nice comment. :)

What a beautiful post. I’ve been through depression on and off for many years, and while I’m a lot better now, I can say I know what it’s like! Hang on and keep going. Life is so beautiful, and those beautiful moments are worth all the struggle.

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